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What to do when you miss your ex after marriage

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Even if you are happily married, there are small things that trigger memories with an ex. It happens with everyone. But do not make that mistake of calling him or her. Instead, follow these 6 tips to deal with those moments when you miss your ex post-marriage.

1. Write about your feelings

Make a journal, write your feelings, express them in words and vent it out but do not call him/her whatsoever. This is especially helpful for those who are unable to talk about their struggle, this feeling with their friends out of guilt. Keep a lock on your journal or keep it somewhere safe.

2. Remember the reasons why they became an ex

Unless it was a forced, arranged marriage, think of the reasons why this person became an ex. You broke up because of something, They became an ex due to some issues. Remember those. The fights, arguments, differences in nature, culture, values etc.

3. Bring in your hobby

You miss an ex when you do not have a task in hand or something triggers their memory. So to counter that, do what you love, which includes your favourite hobbies, cooking, something that will keep you busy.

4. Meet your friends

Make a plan with your friends. Call up that friend whom you haven’t spoken to in a while. Do not be home alone. Best would be to take your spouse out on a date and remind yourself that the person in front of you is your today and he/she deserves the love and attention you are instead wasting on an ex’s memory.

5. Self improvement

Self improvement must always be on the agenda. If you are missing your ex, best is to divert your attention to doing something good for yourself instead of letting the negative or sad emotions seep in. If not this, go shopping, pamper yourself, go to that cafe you always passed by but never stepped into.

6. Travel

Make plans with your spouse, and go on a short or long trip, whatever your pocket and work culture allows. Sometimes, a trek, time outside four walls with someone is all your mind actually needs.

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5 benefits of having sex with an older man

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Sex with younger men is more experimental but when it comes to older men, the sex is more quality because they are seasoned. There are many advantages of having sex with older men and here ois a list of 5 benefits that you ought to know.

  1. They are confident

Older men are way more confident in bed than younger men because of the sheer experience that is if they had an active sex life. They are ready to lead and there will not be a moment of awkwardness for them. They know where to focus

2. Mature

Older men are way more evolved and they are mature when it comes to understanding women. They will be less judgemental and will help you even if you are inexperienced.

3. They are uber romantic

Boys are more of the fascinated sorts while grown men are romantic. They tend to ease in with romance and intimacy before going for it.

4. Honesty

Men consider your opinion and they respect it too. Unlike boys they will try to please you. They admire it when you tell them what you want and when you are honest about something. They work on a better performance as well.

5. They are more serious

Unlike the youngsters, most men are not in the “time-pass” or conquest game. They are probably searching for something meaningful. Young men or boys are generally interested more in hooking up unless they have made an official commitment. So sex with them may just be safer for the emotional souls.

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Never do these 5 things right after having sex

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Just like you use so much of energy while having sex and in the moment leading to it, after sex actions too are very important.

There are certain do’s and don’ts that must be kept in mind. So here are 5 things you must never do right after having sex.

  1. Washing your private parts with intimate wash

It is a thumb rule that after having sex we should wash our private parts but the collateral mistake you make is when you wash it with an intimate wash. These washes can be very harsh and ruin your pH levels and you cannot forget the fact that your skin is very sensitive there right after sex. It is best to pee to get rid of any bacteria over washing as well.

2. Clean the sex toys

Just like you clean your body, clean your sex toys as well after using them. You cannot afford for any kind of bacteria to sit on it as the next time you use it, you will have major issues. Clean the toys with warm water and a mild soap.

3. Don’t just leave after sex

You have been intimate with your partner, you just had sex with him or her. Don’t leave him/her cold right after doing it. It is a very insensitive move and it makes the other feel used too. Spoon them for a while, kiss the forehead, hug, make sure your body is touching your partner for a few minutes. This releases some happy hormones and makes both you and your partner feel good. If you can, take feedback with love and care in your voice. Ask her/him if it was good. If not, ask what can be done better. This shows you consider his/her feelings and who doesn’t like that?

4. Don’t put on tight clothes

Let your body breathe after sex. Wear a light t-shirt, pajama or a night dress or just boxers, avoid anything body hugging. Reason being that right after sex, your body releases fluids and prespires. If you wear anything tight, the friction increases and this can lead to bacteria.

5. Keep that screen away

Forget about the outer world after sex. Don’t check your phone or TV right after you have had a hot, intimate session. This is equivalent to leaving the bed right away. This shows nothing but detachment. Make sure you are present for your partner and make use of the oxytocin – the bonding hormone our body releases after sex.

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5 things you can use a condom for outside of sex

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According to an article published by Health24 Gogos from Limpopo have believed a myth that condom lube can soothe joint pain but the Department of health tried to address the myth with the residents but aboGogo did not believe the department. 

A condom is a sheath-shaped barrier device, used during sexual intercourse to reduce the probability of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

According to TAC’s Head of Policy Marcus Low, there is“no evidence that condom lubricant is effective for treating arthritis or any other joint condition”.

Low said that TAC was concerned about ongoing reports of condom misuse.

There are rather other things that you can use condoms for that can really help you. 

HERE ARE THE 5 THINGS YOU CAN USE A CONDOM FOR OUTSIDE OF SEX

– A fruit saver – Roll one of these over a piece of fruit to keep it fresh in your bag! Just maybe don’t take it out in front of people.

– Make up smoother – You get the best of both worlds: squishy texture that distributes makeup in tough-to-reach spots, without the wasteful absorption of a sponge.

– Elastic bands – Starting from the end, cut vertically along the length of the condom you have an elasctic band

– Cold pack – Fill with water and rubbing alcohol then put it in the freezer. Next time you sprain something, this will provide a cold press that will shape itself to wherever you put it.

– Waterproof phone holder – To avoid the dreaded phones, here’s a phone holder that will remain waterproof even if your phone is completely submerged

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