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Signs your lover is after lust, not love



Being in a delusion that your partner is happily in love with you, is not healthy.

Often when we love someone, we tend to think that they reciprocate our feelings, when in reality they do not.

And this behaviour becomes very evident with some clear signs.

These signs are also huge red flags that indicate your partner isn’t in a committed relationship with you for love.

And so, we have listed a few red flags that will help you identify if your partner is with you for their lust.

1, Superfast feelings

You have to admit it. Love takes time. Like all other good things, love requires two people to know each other, understand and trust each other. But if one immediately claims to have fallen in love overnight, it’s not entirely true. True intimacy develops only after a minimum period of time.

2. Never texting back

If your partner is ghosting and not texting you back when you need them, you might have to rethink your decisions. Your partner should be available for you whenever you need them, except in any case of emergencies. Adequate communication is a necessity to flow into a relationship that your partner simply doesn’t want to do. And that means they’re only after pleasure.

3. Initiatives from your side

You will notice that your partner is never the one to initiate phone calls, texts or even meet-ups because, in all honesty, they are least interested. They probably don’t want anything to do outside of the bedroom with you. So they will hardly initiate any dates or trips with you.

4. Manipulative attitude

Your partner will always seek to control you according to their benefit. And unconsciously, you will also find yourself doing whatever they want. This is because you want to see them happy but they do not want the same. They will ask you to change your schedule or time that fits them best and even be mysterious when you ask them anything.

5. Arguments and fights

They will appear ready to end fights and arguments without arriving at any solution. They will wait for you to approach them because it’s quite clear that you’re the one who will suffer by not talking. If your partner resists indulging in a healthy debate every time, they don’t love you.

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Top 10 African countries with-the most beautiful women



HOUSING 54 countries, both the longest and only pink rivers in the world, Africa is indeed a special continent.

Not only is it the hottest continent in terms of climate, but it also hosts the hottest women in the world.

So which country has the most beautiful women?

According to popular African magazine The Nile Post, these are the top 10 African countries with the most beautiful women:

1. Ethiopia

This is considered by many as a country with the most beautiful women in Africa. The women are also often described as charming and gorgeous.

2. Nigeria

This is the most populous country, and one of the most demographically diverse. It has so many beautiful ladies with an enormous sense of fashion.

3. Tanzania

Tanzanian women are very beautiful, gorgeous and curvy. They often tend to give men sleepless nights with their beautiful smile and red lips.

4. Kenya

Kenyan women are beautiful and have a good sense of fashion. They are also curvy with very attractive human features.

5. DR Congo

Congolese women are very warm, caring, have strong survival sense and one of the most beautiful in the continent.


Close up of smiling african woman wearing vivid makeup against red background. Female model with buzz cut hairstyle looking at camera and smiling. Photo Credit: iStock

6. Ivory Coast

The biggest Cocoa makers also serve some of the hottest women in the continent.

7. Ghana

Not only are they beautiful, but Ghanaian women are also friendly, curvy and romantically appealing.

8. South Africa

South African women are not only beautiful, but they are also deemed ambitious and goal-driven.

9. Zimbabwe

The women in Zimbabwe are often deemed as beauty with plenty of brains.

10. Burundi and Rwanda

Women in these two countries have the same stunning beauty features, with the difference being only on the speaking accent and fashion sense.

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Meet the baby born with three 4-5s



A BABY boy was born with three 4-5s in Iraq.

According to Live-Science magazine, the baby was born with three 4-5s in the first-ever reported case of human triphallia, the condition in which three phalluses form during embryonic development.

According to the publication, the child, first seen by doctors as a three-month-old baby, underwent surgery to remove two of the phalluses, which were small projections at the base of the 4-5 and scrotum.

The third phallus was in the usual location.

According to a case study in the International Journal of Surgery Case Reports published in November, the boy was doing well at a follow-up visit a year after surgery.

According to world health experts, extra penises are a rare congenital condition, occurring only once in every five million to six million live births.

The level of development of these extra phalluses differs in individuals.

In the case of the child in Iraq, the two additional penises contained the erectile tissue, called corpus cavernosum, which becomes engorged with blood during arousal, as well as a tissue called corpus spongiosum, which helps support the urethra, the tube through which urine passes.

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There is a dating app for those with big 4-5s



DAVID Minns, the creator and founder of Dinky One, the dating app for those with small 4-5s and those who enjoy them, has now created a special dating app for those with big 4-5s.

Aptly named The Big One, it’s a dating application open to men who have an above-average 4-5 (about 14cm long), or any person of any gender who prefers a larger 4-5.

According to, following the success of Dinky One, which has 70 000 sign-ups, David wanted to cater for their bigger counterparts.

David shared that Big One was made in response to the numerous requests.

He said both apps ensured everyone could find their perfect match.

“The majority of feedback I received from Dinky One was men excited to see a platform that had never been done before.

“Pre-launch comments for Big One were primarily women looking to date without having to be concerned about size. Both sites complete the set,” said David.

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