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Real reasons why people cheat

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A recent study conducted on psychologists.com revealed that according to the global index, two out of three people will cheat in a relationship in their lifetime.

Simply put, many of us will cheat at least once in our lifetime.

A new study has revealed why this is the case.

So, why do we cheat in our relationships?

According to the Scientific American publication, scientists have discovered the real reasons why people cheat in relationships.

In a study, scientists looked at 495 people of which 87.9% were identified as heterosexual.

These people were recruited through a participant pool at a large US university and through Reddit message boards with relationship themes.

The participants admitted to cheating in their relationships and answered the question at the root of the mystery: Why did you do it?

An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.

According to the results, most participants felt some form of emotional attachment to their affair partner, but it was significantly more common in those who reported suffering from neglect or lack of love in their primary relationship.

Of the participants, 62.8% admitted to expressing affection toward their new partner, 61.2% engaged in sexually explicit dialogue with them, 37.6% had intimate conversations, while 11.1% said “I love you”.

Furthermore, those who reported feeling less connected to their primary partner experienced greater emotional intimacy in the affair.

Similarly, when infidelity was linked to lack of love, individuals found the experience more intellectually and emotionally satisfying.

When it comes to sex, people reported feeling more sexually fulfilled when they cheated because of desire, lack of love or a need for variety.

The study revealed that much of the sexual activity was limited to kissing and cuddling and only a small percentage was attributed to vaginal intercourse.

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Why keeping your socks on during sex is the BEST!

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From secret socks to happy socks, socks have become an important accessory in clothing and in fashion.

It then comes as no surprise that taking them off becomes a challenge, especially when you’re about to have sex.

This accessory, much like the condom, has become a key component during sex, and experts tell us why:

Cotton, the material used to make socks, is one of the most comfortable materials for the human body.

Referred to as “foot condoms”, socks play an important role in protecting and nurturing one’s feet and not all of us are blessed with the best toes.

According to sexologists, socks are also great for an orgasm during sex.

For a human being to experience the ultimate orgasm,

comfort, stimulation and concentration are needed to experience the ultimate orgasm. Socks psychologically help with that.

Researchers at the University of Groningen found that 80% of couples reached an orgasm while wearing socks while only 50% managed to climax without socks.

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5 things you didn’t know about the 4-5!

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People often say there’s always a deeper understanding to the way we view things with the naked eye.

Let’s take the 4-5 as an example.

For many of us, this is a sexual reproductive organ found in men. We also know that the 4-5 is an excretory organ.

According to Medical-News-Today, there is more to the human 4-5 than meets the eye.

According to the medical magazine, these are the five things we didn’t know about the 4-5:

1. The 4-5s First Erection Can Be Seen in an Unborn Foetus 

According to a study from 1991, foetal erections most commonly occur during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. And they can happen a number of times each hour. No one is quite sure why, but it might be the body’s way of testing things out and keeping them running correctly.

2. The 4-5 Can Break

There is no bone in the 4-5, however, it is still possible to break the 4-5. This most commonly occurs during vigorous sex, although doctors have also documented it in people who have fallen out of bed with an erection. Penile fracture, as it is known, is actually the rupture of the fibrous covering of the corpora cavernosa, which is the tissue that becomes erect when engorged with blood.

3. One Can Experience an Erection After Their Death

Also called angel lust or a terminal erection, it happens in the moments after death. This commonly occurs in people who have died from hanging. Scientists believe that it may be due to pressure from the nose on the cerebellum. However, it has also been reported following death by a gunshot wound to the head, damage to major blood vessels, and poisoning.

4. A 4-5 is Twice As Long As You Think

Penises are longer than they look. In fact, around half of the entire length is housed inside the body. The mass of pink erectile tissue, which comprises the so grandly named corpus cavernosum and “corpus spongiosum, extends well into the pelvic region, forming a sort of boomerang shape thus making the 4-5 look twice its size.

5. Ways To Tell The Size Of a 4-5

Although an older study found that penile length was related to both height and foot length, it was a weak relationship, and the authors concluded: Height and foot size would not serve as practical estimators of penis length. A 2006 study published in the International Journal of Impotence Research looked at other correlations. The researchers concluded that penile dimensions are significantly correlated with age, height, and index finger length, but not foot size.

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Most dangerous sex positions that you must not try

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The bible of se suggests some amazing sex positions that we all want to try.

However, there are some positions which have been termed dangerous even though they look very simple.

Accroding to different studies and researches, there are 3 sex positions which are dangerous. They could either tear the vaginal wall or fracture the penis. Here is a list of ones that are dangerous.

1.Cowgirl

According to a study which was published in the US National Institute of Health, the cowgirl position where the woman is on top, can put the male genitalia in danger. Reason being that if and most of the time it is true, there is not enough lubrication when a woman is on top. Due to this the penetration becomes sore. The force of the thrust as per the study, can lead to injuries. Also, if the body weight is entirely on the man, it can prove to be dangerous if not done right.

2. Doggy style

During the doggy style, vaginal tearing is common especially if the penis is penetrated from the wrong side and is forced. Sometimes even lubrication is not enough, even then the position can be injurious. If the penetration enters places which were not ready for the same, then too a tear can be expected.

3. Missionary

Missionary sex is the most commonly practiced sex position. However, according to a report by NZ Herald, Brazilian researchers pointed out that almost 21% penile fractures occur when the men are trying to climax. The giver may be in control of the power and speed of the thrust but if the man hits the pelvic bone without any intention of doing so, it could be dangerous.

So, practice safe sex, try different lubes and make sure there is consent in whatever you wan t to try. Sex should be fun for both the giver and receiver. In case the woman is not as wet, how about trying some foreplay first!

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