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Major things men do wrong with women

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Sometimes men become oblivious to the fact that their actions may be driving their women away. Being rude, disrespectful, arguing constantly are only some of the things that men tend to do, that slowly drift them apart from their partner. And when they do not make any efforts to correct their mistakes, women do not waste any time in leaving them. Here are some of the things men tend to do wrong with women.

1.Being narcissistic

A man who is always obsessed with himself and fails to see or understand his partner’s needs is simply destroying the relationship beyond repair. A relationship takes two to understand and work and if the man can’t make efforts to make his woman feel welcome in his life, then he’s doing it all wrong.

2.Lies and lies

No matter how small or big the lie is, a lie is a lie. A woman can’t tolerate their partner lying to them for any reason because it breaks all grounds of trust and loyalty. What’s worse, the woman can’t even think of trusting their man again.

3.Lack of communication

A relationship is all about how you talk with your partner. If a man keeps mostly to himself, refusing to speak to their woman, no matter how much the latter tries, then it’s eventually not going to work out. Communication is the key and oxygen to any relationship.

4.Not knowing what she likes

Getting your woman a gift she doesn’t like is acceptable once or twice at the beginning of the relationship. But if a man continues to get her stuff she doesn’t like, then it’s an indication that the man has no idea what his woman likes. And that’s not a good sign.

5.Putting the time

A man has to put enough time into a relationship to make it work. If he doesn’t take out the time to understand his woman, or what she needs then he doesn’t really care about her. And if he can’t understand her, then he ought to take out time to sit and communicate about her feelings.

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Never do these 5 things right after having sex

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Just like you use so much of energy while having sex and in the moment leading to it, after sex actions too are very important.

There are certain do’s and don’ts that must be kept in mind. So here are 5 things you must never do right after having sex.

  1. Washing your private parts with intimate wash

It is a thumb rule that after having sex we should wash our private parts but the collateral mistake you make is when you wash it with an intimate wash. These washes can be very harsh and ruin your pH levels and you cannot forget the fact that your skin is very sensitive there right after sex. It is best to pee to get rid of any bacteria over washing as well.

2. Clean the sex toys

Just like you clean your body, clean your sex toys as well after using them. You cannot afford for any kind of bacteria to sit on it as the next time you use it, you will have major issues. Clean the toys with warm water and a mild soap.

3. Don’t just leave after sex

You have been intimate with your partner, you just had sex with him or her. Don’t leave him/her cold right after doing it. It is a very insensitive move and it makes the other feel used too. Spoon them for a while, kiss the forehead, hug, make sure your body is touching your partner for a few minutes. This releases some happy hormones and makes both you and your partner feel good. If you can, take feedback with love and care in your voice. Ask her/him if it was good. If not, ask what can be done better. This shows you consider his/her feelings and who doesn’t like that?

4. Don’t put on tight clothes

Let your body breathe after sex. Wear a light t-shirt, pajama or a night dress or just boxers, avoid anything body hugging. Reason being that right after sex, your body releases fluids and prespires. If you wear anything tight, the friction increases and this can lead to bacteria.

5. Keep that screen away

Forget about the outer world after sex. Don’t check your phone or TV right after you have had a hot, intimate session. This is equivalent to leaving the bed right away. This shows nothing but detachment. Make sure you are present for your partner and make use of the oxytocin – the bonding hormone our body releases after sex.

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5 things you can use a condom for outside of sex

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According to an article published by Health24 Gogos from Limpopo have believed a myth that condom lube can soothe joint pain but the Department of health tried to address the myth with the residents but aboGogo did not believe the department. 

A condom is a sheath-shaped barrier device, used during sexual intercourse to reduce the probability of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

According to TAC’s Head of Policy Marcus Low, there is“no evidence that condom lubricant is effective for treating arthritis or any other joint condition”.

Low said that TAC was concerned about ongoing reports of condom misuse.

There are rather other things that you can use condoms for that can really help you. 

HERE ARE THE 5 THINGS YOU CAN USE A CONDOM FOR OUTSIDE OF SEX

– A fruit saver – Roll one of these over a piece of fruit to keep it fresh in your bag! Just maybe don’t take it out in front of people.

– Make up smoother – You get the best of both worlds: squishy texture that distributes makeup in tough-to-reach spots, without the wasteful absorption of a sponge.

– Elastic bands – Starting from the end, cut vertically along the length of the condom you have an elasctic band

– Cold pack – Fill with water and rubbing alcohol then put it in the freezer. Next time you sprain something, this will provide a cold press that will shape itself to wherever you put it.

– Waterproof phone holder – To avoid the dreaded phones, here’s a phone holder that will remain waterproof even if your phone is completely submerged

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Are bald men smarter

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A lot is often said about men who are bald.

For starters, many assume that baldness is the first sign of ageing.

Healthline magazine agrees that being bald or having bald spots on your head are early signs of ageing.

While this may seem gloomy for those with a chiskop, recent studies have shown that there are some advantages to being bald.

Not only does being bald score you maximum points with the ladies, being bald, according to research, is a sign of intelligence.

According to a study conducted by Professor Dr Frank Muscarella from Barry University, bald men are perceived as being more socially dominant and smarter.

During the research, Dr Muscarella asked the focus group to rate male participants in accordance with four criteria: attractiveness, aggressiveness, appeasement, and maturity.

The study revealed that bald men were rated as more honest, masculine and intelligent.

A similar study conducted by scientist Albert E Mannes at the University of Pennsylvania also revealed that bald men were perceived to be intelligent and smart.

While both studies deal with perception-based research, more compelling research from the University of Curryland reveals a direct link between baldness and intelligence.

According to research, being bald can increase your IQ score by 10 points.

Researchers at the University of Curryland conducted a study on 400 individuals and reached the conclusion that going bald makes an immediate and incredible improvement to a person’s IQ.

The study looked at 400 men with varying degrees of hair who were made to take IQ tests first with full hair, then after going bald and then again, after regaining their lost hair.

Interestingly, it was observed that their scores improved by as much as 10 points after going bald.

These scores dropped again when these men took the test after regaining their lost hair.

According to lead researcher Dr Parkin Johnson, hair puts unnecessary pressure on the many nerves present in the human brain and thus reduces brain function.

The study was later published in the journal Human Hairopia.

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