Let’s face it. First time sex is a nightmare for many. With the nervousness shooting through the roof, the entire experience can be a disaster.
Women might feel pain for the first time or men may have to face the embarrassment of climaxing too first. But don’t worry, first-timers.
Here are some ways you can make sure your first-time sex isn’t a disaster.
1. Be prepared
There’s nothing like being prepared for your first time. Don’t be under the wrong impression that there won’t be any awkwardness because there will be. And once you accept it, it’ll become easier to have sex.
2. Talk about your concerns
Before you both go for it, talk all about it with your partner. It is important to communicate with your partner about how you both want to go ahead with it, the positions etc. If you have any special requests, tell your partner before you start.
3. Orgasms
It is alright if you both don’t orgasm the first time. It takes a lot to be acquainted with sex and thinking of pleasure isn’t the very first thought that will come to your mind.
4. Foreplay
Work on your foreplay game. Pleasure your partner’s body in places where they feel good the most. Foreplay heightens the amount of pleasure one can feel in their body and this is the best way to have relaxing sex the first time.
Lie flat on your stomach and when you reach down to masturbate, you will realise that in turn your hips will gyrate to hump or grind against your hand. Here the weight of your body presses the clitoris against the bed or sofa that you are lying on. Read also: These 7 surprising things lower your libido!
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