Let’s face it. First time sex is a nightmare for many. With the nervousness shooting through the roof, the entire experience can be a disaster.
Women might feel pain for the first time or men may have to face the embarrassment of climaxing too first. But don’t worry, first-timers.
Here are some ways you can make sure your first-time sex isn’t a disaster.
1. Be prepared
There’s nothing like being prepared for your first time. Don’t be under the wrong impression that there won’t be any awkwardness because there will be. And once you accept it, it’ll become easier to have sex.
2. Talk about your concerns
Before you both go for it, talk all about it with your partner. It is important to communicate with your partner about how you both want to go ahead with it, the positions etc. If you have any special requests, tell your partner before you start.
It is alright if you both don’t orgasm the first time. It takes a lot to be acquainted with sex and thinking of pleasure isn’t the very first thought that will come to your mind.
Work on your foreplay game. Pleasure your partner’s body in places where they feel good the most. Foreplay heightens the amount of pleasure one can feel in their body and this is the best way to have relaxing sex the first time.
Lie flat on your stomach and when you reach down to masturbate, you will realise that in turn your hips will gyrate to hump or grind against your hand. Here the weight of your body presses the clitoris against the bed or sofa that you are lying on. Read also: These 7 surprising things lower your libido!
Oral sex tips everyone should know about
Most people skip oral sex to jump straightaway to sexual penetration because supposedly, it’s the most pleasurable part of it all.
Well, most people are wrong. Oral sex can be deeply satisfying as it arouses all our senses, leaving the person receiving oral sex, writhing in pleasure.
Here are some tips about oral sex that everyone ought to know about!
1.Practice good hygiene
To have oral sex, you should be very clean down there. Nobody wants to be greeted with a nasty smell. Taking a shower before you go for it, is a good idea because this will make you confident and relieve you of stress if you have any.
2.Avoid food that can change your odour
Certain foods you eat can impact your body’s odour. Foods that have a strong smell can make your private area smell quite different. So, it’s best to indulge in mild foods that aren’t too spiky, sugary or garlicky.
3. Don’t rush
Oral sex is all about going slow. Rushing to pleasure your partner down there is either going to give them a rush or just a sour mood! Going slow and slowly rubbing your partner down there will increase the stimulation, paving the way for a heavenly feel.
4. Try to blindfold your partner
This can add an exciting element to sex because leaving your partner blindfolded when you go down on them leaves them guessing which part of theirs you’re going to pleasure next. A touch becomes even more sensitive and erotic.
5 sex positions you should try in a hotel room
Sex is fun at home but it gets more interesting and fun when it is done in a public place.
It is hotter, steamier and somehow you feel more free especially if you have parents at home or have kids.
So try these 5 sex positions if you are in a hotel room.
Stand in that big bathroom or in the bedroom against the wall and let your partner bend over. Why use a hotel room for this? Remember the see through windows? Try against that and see how it boosts the sex. Try the lube as well because it makes it easier to penetrate.
2. Reverse cowgirl
The huge plush beds of a hotel are the best for you to try this. You can go on all 4 as a receiver and lay down a bit. Start slow and then go with the rhythm.
3. Chair sex
Sex in a chair is fun but u think of many things when trying this. The hygiene, the strength of the chair etc. Try the extra furniture in the room like the plush chair and even the couch that you see in the hotel room. Chair sex is the ideal one because it gives you rproper eye contact and psotioning to enjoy it. Feel naughtier? Try the chocolate sauce.
This position is best when you feel tempted to break the crispness of those white sheets. Those clean king size beds are uber comfortable and allow you to try this position too. Begin by lying on the bed’s edge while the giving partner stands at the foot of the bed. Move your legs to his chest until the ankles rest on his shoulder. Ask your partner to lift your elvis off the bed, lie back and enjoy.
5. From behind
This doggy style that we advice you to try in a hotel room because there are different heights of furniture there. Take out that vibrator and enjoy yourself. Sex on a vacay is more thrilling somehow.
Why keeping your socks on during sex is the BEST!
From secret socks to happy socks, socks have become an important accessory in clothing and in fashion.
It then comes as no surprise that taking them off becomes a challenge, especially when you’re about to have sex.
This accessory, much like the condom, has become a key component during sex, and experts tell us why:
Cotton, the material used to make socks, is one of the most comfortable materials for the human body.
Referred to as “foot condoms”, socks play an important role in protecting and nurturing one’s feet and not all of us are blessed with the best toes.
According to sexologists, socks are also great for an orgasm during sex.
For a human being to experience the ultimate orgasm,
comfort, stimulation and concentration are needed to experience the ultimate orgasm. Socks psychologically help with that.
Researchers at the University of Groningen found that 80% of couples reached an orgasm while wearing socks while only 50% managed to climax without socks.
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