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Breakup texts that’ll put an end to a relationship

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Breaking up with your partner can be a tough task. Not knowing what to say and how to express yourself while breaking up is a common issue that most people face.

And so, long before we know it, breaking up over text has taken precedence over everything else. Some consider it disrespectful while others think it’s a clean and quick way to break up with someone.

If you’re one of the people who think the latter, then these breakup texts will help you end your relationship the way you want it.

1.When the dates didn’t go well

“I’m sorry but I didn’t really like the dates we went on. I didn’t feel a connection but I wish you the best.” This is a good way to keep it simple, to the point, without being much hurtful.

2. When you both have been texting for some time now

If you both have been texting back and forth but if you’re no longer interested in that person, then you can simply tell, “I know we have been texting each other quite a lot and while getting to know each other through texts is a good thing, I don’t feel it’s a good time for me. It was fun talking to you.”

3. When a kind message does the trick

A genuine text can always set the tone for your current and future relationships. Having good relations with everybody is a good way to avoid failure. So, something like, “I think we are yet to meet our soulmates. I know there is someone else for you and I’m sure you will be very happy when you meet them. I feel I’m just not the one.”

4.When you’ve been in a casual relationship

“It has been fun hanging around with you, but I am not really sure where this is going. It was good while it lasted.” A simple text like this can be quite to the point and do the job quickly. Since casual relationships don’t include intimacy, it’s relatively easier to break off.

5.When your partner’s behaviour isn’t worth it

“I am sorry but we cannot continue seeing each other because I tried telling you how your behaviour wasn’t appropriate that day. If you cannot correct your behaviour, then it’s not on me to handle or fix that.” Keeping boundaries and adhering to them, is a safety net that you should have.

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5 benefits of having sex with an older man

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Sex with younger men is more experimental but when it comes to older men, the sex is more quality because they are seasoned. There are many advantages of having sex with older men and here ois a list of 5 benefits that you ought to know.

  1. They are confident

Older men are way more confident in bed than younger men because of the sheer experience that is if they had an active sex life. They are ready to lead and there will not be a moment of awkwardness for them. They know where to focus

2. Mature

Older men are way more evolved and they are mature when it comes to understanding women. They will be less judgemental and will help you even if you are inexperienced.

3. They are uber romantic

Boys are more of the fascinated sorts while grown men are romantic. They tend to ease in with romance and intimacy before going for it.

4. Honesty

Men consider your opinion and they respect it too. Unlike boys they will try to please you. They admire it when you tell them what you want and when you are honest about something. They work on a better performance as well.

5. They are more serious

Unlike the youngsters, most men are not in the “time-pass” or conquest game. They are probably searching for something meaningful. Young men or boys are generally interested more in hooking up unless they have made an official commitment. So sex with them may just be safer for the emotional souls.

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Never do these 5 things right after having sex

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Just like you use so much of energy while having sex and in the moment leading to it, after sex actions too are very important.

There are certain do’s and don’ts that must be kept in mind. So here are 5 things you must never do right after having sex.

  1. Washing your private parts with intimate wash

It is a thumb rule that after having sex we should wash our private parts but the collateral mistake you make is when you wash it with an intimate wash. These washes can be very harsh and ruin your pH levels and you cannot forget the fact that your skin is very sensitive there right after sex. It is best to pee to get rid of any bacteria over washing as well.

2. Clean the sex toys

Just like you clean your body, clean your sex toys as well after using them. You cannot afford for any kind of bacteria to sit on it as the next time you use it, you will have major issues. Clean the toys with warm water and a mild soap.

3. Don’t just leave after sex

You have been intimate with your partner, you just had sex with him or her. Don’t leave him/her cold right after doing it. It is a very insensitive move and it makes the other feel used too. Spoon them for a while, kiss the forehead, hug, make sure your body is touching your partner for a few minutes. This releases some happy hormones and makes both you and your partner feel good. If you can, take feedback with love and care in your voice. Ask her/him if it was good. If not, ask what can be done better. This shows you consider his/her feelings and who doesn’t like that?

4. Don’t put on tight clothes

Let your body breathe after sex. Wear a light t-shirt, pajama or a night dress or just boxers, avoid anything body hugging. Reason being that right after sex, your body releases fluids and prespires. If you wear anything tight, the friction increases and this can lead to bacteria.

5. Keep that screen away

Forget about the outer world after sex. Don’t check your phone or TV right after you have had a hot, intimate session. This is equivalent to leaving the bed right away. This shows nothing but detachment. Make sure you are present for your partner and make use of the oxytocin – the bonding hormone our body releases after sex.

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5 things you can use a condom for outside of sex

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According to an article published by Health24 Gogos from Limpopo have believed a myth that condom lube can soothe joint pain but the Department of health tried to address the myth with the residents but aboGogo did not believe the department. 

A condom is a sheath-shaped barrier device, used during sexual intercourse to reduce the probability of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

According to TAC’s Head of Policy Marcus Low, there is“no evidence that condom lubricant is effective for treating arthritis or any other joint condition”.

Low said that TAC was concerned about ongoing reports of condom misuse.

There are rather other things that you can use condoms for that can really help you. 

HERE ARE THE 5 THINGS YOU CAN USE A CONDOM FOR OUTSIDE OF SEX

– A fruit saver – Roll one of these over a piece of fruit to keep it fresh in your bag! Just maybe don’t take it out in front of people.

– Make up smoother – You get the best of both worlds: squishy texture that distributes makeup in tough-to-reach spots, without the wasteful absorption of a sponge.

– Elastic bands – Starting from the end, cut vertically along the length of the condom you have an elasctic band

– Cold pack – Fill with water and rubbing alcohol then put it in the freezer. Next time you sprain something, this will provide a cold press that will shape itself to wherever you put it.

– Waterproof phone holder – To avoid the dreaded phones, here’s a phone holder that will remain waterproof even if your phone is completely submerged

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