Not everything should be said out loud and shared with everyone. There are a few things in life that must be kept a secret from the world around you and no it is not about trust. Here is a list of 7 things that you must remember to keep a secret. Once you understand this list, you will yourself notice a difference in your life.
- Your partner issues
He or she has these habits, fears, whatever, do not share it with people. It is between you and your partner. Her or his secrets are not for you to share in the first place. Even after a break up, most people have the tendency to talk ill about their ex… it is unfair! You will be the one with the negativity anyway, so there is no point.
2. Your goals
Most of us have certain goals in life, certain things we want to achieve. Best is to set them, work on them and not share them with anyone until you have achieved them. Because in case you find something else more interesting and you stop working on the goals, people will start questioning you and you honestly do not have to explain yourself to anyone! Secondly, once you share what you want, not all have something positive to say. There will be negative comments, bad vibes from those with complexes and as we Indians say “nazar lagjaati hai”.
3. Announcing your good deeds
It is actually very shallow when people do that. If you have done something good for someone, keep it to yourself especially when it is charity work. Boasting about what you did will have people rolling their eyes and that is it. Let others talk about you, admire you when they see results. Be humble.
4. Your bank account and balance
If nothing else, for your own security, keep shut about how much money you have. Enough said!
5. Your weaknesses
Everyone has that one thing which is their weakness or they fear something. However, you must not share them out loud as some vicious people have this habit of using it against you. Just face your fears with confidence, no matter how small or huge.
6. Family drama
No family is perfect! They may look well knit and oh so lovely but there are skeletons behind each door. If you want to talk, talk to a therapist or probably that one trustworthy best friend. Everyone does not need to know them. Because even if they seem to be consoling you, people do end up making fun of you no matter how messed up their own home is. Why subject your own personal life to nonsensical gossip?
7. Your talents
Let the world see your talents when the opportunity to show them off comes. Don’t boast, show it at the right time and place. The kind of appreciation you will get when you rise to the occasion will feel much better.
Oral sex tips everyone should know about
Most people skip oral sex to jump straightaway to sexual penetration because supposedly, it’s the most pleasurable part of it all.
Well, most people are wrong. Oral sex can be deeply satisfying as it arouses all our senses, leaving the person receiving oral sex, writhing in pleasure.
Here are some tips about oral sex that everyone ought to know about!
1.Practice good hygiene
To have oral sex, you should be very clean down there. Nobody wants to be greeted with a nasty smell. Taking a shower before you go for it, is a good idea because this will make you confident and relieve you of stress if you have any.
2.Avoid food that can change your odour
Certain foods you eat can impact your body’s odour. Foods that have a strong smell can make your private area smell quite different. So, it’s best to indulge in mild foods that aren’t too spiky, sugary or garlicky.
3. Don’t rush
Oral sex is all about going slow. Rushing to pleasure your partner down there is either going to give them a rush or just a sour mood! Going slow and slowly rubbing your partner down there will increase the stimulation, paving the way for a heavenly feel.
4. Try to blindfold your partner
This can add an exciting element to sex because leaving your partner blindfolded when you go down on them leaves them guessing which part of theirs you’re going to pleasure next. A touch becomes even more sensitive and erotic.
5 sex positions you should try in a hotel room
Sex is fun at home but it gets more interesting and fun when it is done in a public place.
It is hotter, steamier and somehow you feel more free especially if you have parents at home or have kids.
So try these 5 sex positions if you are in a hotel room.
Stand in that big bathroom or in the bedroom against the wall and let your partner bend over. Why use a hotel room for this? Remember the see through windows? Try against that and see how it boosts the sex. Try the lube as well because it makes it easier to penetrate.
2. Reverse cowgirl
The huge plush beds of a hotel are the best for you to try this. You can go on all 4 as a receiver and lay down a bit. Start slow and then go with the rhythm.
3. Chair sex
Sex in a chair is fun but u think of many things when trying this. The hygiene, the strength of the chair etc. Try the extra furniture in the room like the plush chair and even the couch that you see in the hotel room. Chair sex is the ideal one because it gives you rproper eye contact and psotioning to enjoy it. Feel naughtier? Try the chocolate sauce.
This position is best when you feel tempted to break the crispness of those white sheets. Those clean king size beds are uber comfortable and allow you to try this position too. Begin by lying on the bed’s edge while the giving partner stands at the foot of the bed. Move your legs to his chest until the ankles rest on his shoulder. Ask your partner to lift your elvis off the bed, lie back and enjoy.
5. From behind
This doggy style that we advice you to try in a hotel room because there are different heights of furniture there. Take out that vibrator and enjoy yourself. Sex on a vacay is more thrilling somehow.
Why keeping your socks on during sex is the BEST!
From secret socks to happy socks, socks have become an important accessory in clothing and in fashion.
It then comes as no surprise that taking them off becomes a challenge, especially when you’re about to have sex.
This accessory, much like the condom, has become a key component during sex, and experts tell us why:
Cotton, the material used to make socks, is one of the most comfortable materials for the human body.
Referred to as “foot condoms”, socks play an important role in protecting and nurturing one’s feet and not all of us are blessed with the best toes.
According to sexologists, socks are also great for an orgasm during sex.
For a human being to experience the ultimate orgasm,
comfort, stimulation and concentration are needed to experience the ultimate orgasm. Socks psychologically help with that.
Researchers at the University of Groningen found that 80% of couples reached an orgasm while wearing socks while only 50% managed to climax without socks.
- Oral sex tips everyone should know about
- 5 sex positions you should try in a hotel room
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